Youhavetochoosetobehappy,andfocusuponbeinghappy,inordertobehappy.Ifyouinsteadfocusuponknowingthatyouwillbehappyifyouachievesomething,youwillneverbehappy,asyouhavenotlearnedto“smelltheroses”.Theironyisthatwhenyouarehappy,youareinevitablymoreproductive,andfarmorelikelytoachievewhateverything-seekersareseeking.
如果你想幸福,就必须去选择它。你需要专注于幸福这件事本身,以使幸福降临。但如果你总是想着,你若能完成某件事就会变得很幸福,那么你将永远无法得到幸福,因为你没有学会“闻闻身边的玫瑰”。而讽刺的是,当你感到幸福美满,你将不可避免地更加富有成就,并更有可能比那些“执着于得到一切的人”拥有更多。
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